A Love Story Written at the Palace

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

In the heart of Seoul, Gyeongbokgung Palace rises with quiet majesty. Once the seat of kings, today it stands as a symbol of endurance, heritage, and the timeless human longing to build something that lasts. For one of our VIP clients, the palace offered more than a breathtaking backdrop for his cinematic story—it became a metaphor for the kind of love he seeks.

He’s loved—deeply, and once, unforgettably.
A connection that sparked his mind,
and revealed the quiet power of unconditional love.
He carries that experience with reverence—
not as baggage, but as a blueprint for something true.

As he walked through the palace gates—walls that have stood for centuries—our VIP client reflected on what it means to create something enduring. Just as history is preserved within these courtyards, he believes love should be both timeless and forward-looking, honoring what came before while being written for the future.

Now, he’s ready—
for something equally soul-stirring.
A woman with her own grace,
who moves through the world with quiet strength,
and meets him with presence, empathy,
and eyes that say, I see you.

The palace sequence captured this duality: the grandeur of legacy alongside the vulnerability of a man opening his heart to possibility. Sweeping wide shots reflected his vision of a partnership rooted in meaning. Intimate close frames revealed his sincerity.

For our client, the palace was never just about beauty. It was about symbolism. The enduring stone, the intricate carvings, the gardens tended for generations—all reminded him that love, at its best, is both art and architecture: deeply intentional, quietly strong, and meant to stand the test of time.

At Linx, we believe love stories are not rushed; they are carefully, consciously built. And for this VIP client, the palace was just the beginning. His story is ready to unfold—with the right woman by his side.

The Power of Why: Reclaiming Curiosity in Love

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Children are insatiably curious. They move through life with an endless stream of questions: Why is the sky blue? Why do birds fly? Why can’t I have dessert first? Asking why is their way of learning, connecting, and making sense of the world.

As adults, most of us stop asking. We fall into routines, make assumptions, or fear the answers might be uncomfortable. But curiosity isn’t childish — it’s essential. In fact, asking why is one of the most powerful tools we have for growth, connection, and clarity.

In leadership, why drives innovation. It helps us uncover the root cause of a challenge, test the integrity of a strategy, and push past surface-level solutions. The leaders and organizations that thrive are the ones who keep asking.

In relationships, why is just as transformative. Why do I want a partner? Why did a past relationship succeed — or fail? Why do I struggle with vulnerability? Why do I chase certain dreams? Why do little moments matter so much?

When we dare to ask these questions, we illuminate the truth of what we value and how we connect. Why prevents us from repeating old patterns, strengthens our self-awareness, and opens us to deeper intimacy.

At Linx Dating, I encourage clients to reclaim their curiosity. Love isn’t about checking boxes or rushing to outcomes — it’s about asking the right questions along the way. When we embrace the power of why, we expand our horizons, align with our authentic values, and create the space for meaningful connection.

So I’ll leave you with this: What’s a why you’ve been asking yourself lately?

Because sometimes the smallest question leads to the biggest discoveries.

Can You Keep Up? Dating Someone Who Lives in Motion

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

There’s a particular kind of person you might come across in the world of modern dating.
They’re not waiting for life to happen. They’re already out there living it.

Always learning. Always exploring. Always in motion.

They’re the ones who book the next trip before they’ve unpacked from the last one.
Who read voraciously, take care of their minds and bodies, and view curiosity not as a phase—but as a way of life.

They’re magnetic, high-energy, and full of momentum.
But dating someone like this? It’s not for the faint of heart.

This week at Linx, we’re reflecting on what it means to be—or date—a person like this. Because while the energy may be exciting, compatibility requires more than just admiration. It requires alignment.

Let’s break it down:

They lead with curiosity.

This person asks questions that don’t come with easy answers. They’re always trying to understand more—about the world, about others, and about themselves.

They’re a match for someone who:
– Enjoys thoughtful dialogue
– Can share ideas and challenge perspectives
– Isn’t defensive when asked to go deeper

They’re not a match for someone who:
– Gets bored easily in conversation
– Finds big questions exhausting
– Feels uncomfortable without certainty

They live in motion.

Stillness is beautiful, but for them, movement is joy. They don’t seek busyness—they seek momentum. Whether it’s a business goal, a hike, or a new hobby, they’re in constant creation.

They’re a match for someone who:
– Brings initiative to their own life
– Finds energy in doing and exploring
– Sees their pace as a shared rhythm

They’re not a match for someone who:
– Feels anxious without predictability
– Prefers a routine-centered relationship
– Expects a partner to slow down to feel “secure”

They prioritize self-care.

This kind of person protects their peace. They may have early mornings, specific rituals, or structured weeks. But their discipline is part of their glow—it’s how they stay balanced.

They’re a match for someone who:
– Values boundaries and independence
– Doesn’t confuse structure with distance
– Appreciates wellness and consistency

They’re not a match for someone who:
– Expects constant availability
– Finds routines controlling
– Takes alone time personally

They are wired for discovery.

New cultures, new restaurants, new experiences. For them, adventure isn’t a break from life—it is life. They are often planning their next chapter before others have finished the last.

They’re a match for someone who:
– Feels energized by change
– Is comfortable with spontaneity
– Sees travel as a shared love language

They’re not a match for someone who:
– Seeks safety in sameness
– Fears the unknown
– Prefers “settled” over “stimulated”

They are not for the faint of heart.

This person doesn’t need rescuing, taming, or molding. They don’t need to be completed—they want to be met. Emotionally, intellectually, energetically.

They can be intense—but it’s a generous intensity. And when met with the right kind of presence, the relationship is electric, expansive, and full of life.

The Bottom Line

Loving someone who lives in motion isn’t about “keeping up” in a performative way.
It’s about having your own inner momentum—your own curiosity, your own pace, your own growth.

Because when both people are moving forward in their own lives, that’s where real connection begins.
That’s where the journey gets interesting.
And that’s when love becomes not just a chapter—but an epic.

From Spark to Substance: Four Conversations That Reveal Real Compatibility

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

The first couple of dates are filled with lightness — stories, laughs, surface-level discoveries. That’s exactly how attraction grows. But if by the third or fourth date you’re still talking only about favorite restaurants or vacation spots, you might be missing a bigger opportunity.

This is the moment to begin weaving in deeper themes. Not with an interrogation, but with curiosity. The goal is not to rush — it’s to open gentle doors into one another’s inner worlds.

Here are four conversations I encourage clients to explore:

• Passion & Purpose – What gives you energy right now? What purpose excites you?

• Guilt & Regret – What’s something you’ve had to forgive yourself for? How has guilt shaped you?

• Identity & Self-Discovery – When do you feel most like yourself? Have you surprised yourself by growing into a new version of you?

• Love & Values – What value matters most in a relationship? Kindness, honesty, family, growth?

The magic comes when you share first. Vulnerability builds trust, and when you offer your story, you create space for your date to do the same.

The point isn’t the “perfect” answer. It’s how you feel in the moment: Do you feel safe? Curious? Inspired? Do you feel understood?

By Date 3 or 4, you still want the butterflies. But you also want to know whether love has roots. When two people are willing to go a little deeper, that’s when chemistry transforms into true compatibility.

Love isn’t just in the spark — it’s in the courage to go deeper, even early on.

5 Types of People to Walk Away From in Dating

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

In my two decades as a professional matchmaker, I’ve learned that people show you who they are very early in dating. The challenge is that when we’re hopeful, lonely, or dazzled by chemistry, it’s easy to ignore those early signs. But clarity at the beginning is one of the most powerful tools you have.

Here are five types of people I advise my clients to walk away from—and how to handle it if you find yourself already caught in the dynamic.

1. The Love Bomber

Lavish gifts, over-the-top affection, and declarations of love after just a date or two can feel intoxicating. But love bombing isn’t about building intimacy—it’s about fast-tracking trust so they can get what they want. It often signals insecurity, immaturity, or even manipulation.

Action Step: Slow the pace. Opt for grounded, simple dates and see how they respond. If they respect your boundaries, that’s healthy. If they pressure or guilt you, that’s a red flag.

2. The Breadcrumb Giver

They send a steady drip of attention—texts, compliments, vague plans—but never follow through. It’s just enough to keep you emotionally invested, but not enough to create real momentum.

Action Step: Be direct. Try: “I’m looking for someone who prioritizes meeting in person. If that’s not you, I wish you well.” Clear communication either prompts action—or reveals their lack of seriousness.

3. The Egotist

Conversations revolve around them—their career, their stress, their stories. At first, you may find their confidence appealing, but over time you’ll realize there’s no space for your voice.

Action Step: Redirect. Ask: “What would you like to know about me?” If they consistently deflect or minimize your experiences, you’re not dealing with a partner—you’re dealing with a performer.

4. The Window Shopper

They flirt, they date, and they enjoy companionship, but when it comes time to commit, they stall. You’ll always feel like you’re on display but never chosen.

Action Step: Clarify intentions. Ask: “What are you truly looking for right now?” If their answer is vague or evasive, trust it. Don’t keep yourself “on the shelf” for someone who doesn’t have the courage to choose you.

5. The Houdini

One day they’re all in, the next day they vanish without a trace—only to reappear later with a casual “Hey, how’ve you been?” This inconsistency isn’t a mystery to solve; it’s immaturity and lack of readiness.

Action Step: Address it head-on. Say: “Consistency matters to me. If you can’t communicate regularly, I don’t think this is a fit.” The right partner will step up. The wrong one will fade—and that’s your answer.

Final Thought

Dating should feel clear, kind, and reciprocal. The wrong people will drain your energy with mixed signals, ego-driven behavior, or half-hearted investment. The right person will bring consistency, ease, and emotional safety.

At Linx Dating, I remind my clients that walking away sooner isn’t failure—it’s discernment. Every “no” clears space for the right “yes.”