The Power of Why: Reclaiming Curiosity in Love

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Children are insatiably curious. They move through life with an endless stream of questions: Why is the sky blue? Why do birds fly? Why can’t I have dessert first? Asking why is their way of learning, connecting, and making sense of the world.

As adults, most of us stop asking. We fall into routines, make assumptions, or fear the answers might be uncomfortable. But curiosity isn’t childish — it’s essential. In fact, asking why is one of the most powerful tools we have for growth, connection, and clarity.

In leadership, why drives innovation. It helps us uncover the root cause of a challenge, test the integrity of a strategy, and push past surface-level solutions. The leaders and organizations that thrive are the ones who keep asking.

In relationships, why is just as transformative. Why do I want a partner? Why did a past relationship succeed — or fail? Why do I struggle with vulnerability? Why do I chase certain dreams? Why do little moments matter so much?

When we dare to ask these questions, we illuminate the truth of what we value and how we connect. Why prevents us from repeating old patterns, strengthens our self-awareness, and opens us to deeper intimacy.

At Linx Dating, I encourage clients to reclaim their curiosity. Love isn’t about checking boxes or rushing to outcomes — it’s about asking the right questions along the way. When we embrace the power of why, we expand our horizons, align with our authentic values, and create the space for meaningful connection.

So I’ll leave you with this: What’s a why you’ve been asking yourself lately?

Because sometimes the smallest question leads to the biggest discoveries.

The Spark That Algorithms Can’t Predict

Even the brightest minds in AI still need help finding love.

On April 23, Linx Dating had the pleasure of co-hosting an unforgettable evening—AI Luxury, a gathering that brought together brilliant minds, investors, engineers, and creatives to explore the future of artificial intelligence and connection.

As I welcomed guests with a toast, I couldn’t help but reflect on the fascinating tension—and synergy—between the human and the artificial. It’s a topic that lives at the heart of my work every day.

While Linx Dating might seem like an outlier in a world dominated by deep tech and data science, I’m consistently struck by how much overlap there really is. Many of my clients are AI founders and investors—visionaries who are reshaping how we live and work. They can optimize complex systems, model human behavior, and predict patterns with incredible accuracy.

And yet, when it comes to matters of the heart…

That’s often where they pause.

That’s where I come in.

The very people pushing the boundaries of what machines can do still turn to a human matchmaker when seeking something as seemingly elusive as love.

Why? Because despite the power of data, there’s still no algorithm for chemistry. No line of code that captures a shared glance across the room. No machine learning model that senses the quiet compatibility of two souls.

At Linx, I’m exploring how AI can be a tool—a way to refine the matchmaking process, surface deeper insights, and help me do what I do even better. It’s exciting. And it’s real.

But I also believe in what can’t be automated:

The intuition, the emotional nuance, the “magnetic spark” that only humans can truly feel.

Maybe that’s the inner Jane Austen in me. Or maybe it’s the seasoned realist who’s seen that, time and again, what matters most is not just compatibility on paper—but energy, timing, and courage.

So what happens when we bring these worlds together?

We get a future that honors both data and desire. One where AI enhances—but doesn’t replace—the magic of human connection.

To everyone who joined us at AI Luxury: thank you. Your presence, your ideas, and your openness made the evening so much more than a networking event. You reminded me that this is only the beginning.

And to those reading:

Here’s to more innovation, more heart, and more belief in the unpredictable beauty of what it means to be human.