The Power of a Strong Network

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating


“Your network is your net worth.” – Porter Gale, author and former VP of Marketing at Virgin America

In the professional world, we often talk about the importance of building a strong network for career growth, new opportunities, and personal development. But, sometimes, the connections we make can lead to something even more extraordinary—finding a life partner.

I recently witnessed a beautiful example of this when two incredible individuals, each with their own goals and dreams, crossed paths through my network.

Several years ago, my friend and fellow matchmaker, Shannon Lundgren of Shannon’s Circle reached out to me, wondering if I had any potential matches for her client Douglas and went on to share his ideal match criteria with me.  

Remarkably, a name popped into my head - Peggy - someone whom I had screened as a prospect many years before, who had really made a lasting impression on me.  I remember sitting on the couch with her, feeling her grace, huge heart, gentle spirit and kindness.  I didn’t even need to do a database search because I knew instantly that she would be the one.

Sure enough, I contacted her, found out she was still single, and we proceeded to make the introduction.

What started as a simple connection, for this extraordinary couple, quickly blossomed into something deeper, and today, they stand side by side as partners in life, having tied the

knot here in the Bay Area this last weekend.

This story is a powerful reminder that our networks are more than just career tools; they are communities of people who can bring unexpected joy and fulfillment into our lives.

I will never forget when Peggy brought me a dancing stuffed birthday bear toy for my newborn baby boy all those years ago, soon after I had given birth. It was a token of her appreciation and cemented a lasting, positive impression.

As the great Maya Angelou once said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

So, to everyone out there building connections, remember—your network might just help you find more than a new job or opportunity. It might help you find the person who will walk beside you on life’s journey. 💍❤️

Client Testimonial: Retired 60-Something Lawyer

Every day, I am reminded of the incredible privilege I have as a matchmaker to work with matters as sensitive and profound as the heart.

It's a journey that requires trust, empathy, and a deep understanding of each person's unique story.

Today, I'm excited to share a heartfelt testimonial from one of our wonderful clients at Linx Dating.

“As an initial matter, it's important to understand my starting point. When you and I first began working together, I was just approaching the first anniversary of my wife's death. We'd been married and in love for more than three decades. I knew I wouldn't be able to build a new life for myself without a partner, but hadn't been on a "date" since the early 1980's. I knew absolutely nothing about how to find a life partner, and heard nothing but horror stories about online dating apps.

Working with you has been an enormous accelerator to my efforts. Beyond the good advice you shared, your referrals to other service providers in your network (e.g., photos and wardrobe building) have proven to be invaluable.

As I write this, I'm now seeing (on an "exclusive" basis) a woman you introduced about 7 months ago. She's warm, smart, interesting, attractive and serious about creating a genuine relationship. Most importantly, I'm happy when I'm with her. It's still too early to know if she's "the one," but I do know that I'd never have met her without your introduction.

Over the last year, you've introduced a substantial number of women. To be sure, some were quite far from a perfect fit. But a surprisingly high percentage were very impressive. Perhaps most importantly, they were all looking for a serious relationship and many had tried-and-quit online dating.

I've had fun/interesting dates with women I'd never have met otherwise.

At this point in my "journey," a key component of my daily personal happiness is the knowledge that, even if things don't work out with the woman I'm currently seeing, you stand ready to make new introductions.

A few words of caution/advice for your prospective clients. Seeking a life partner is pretty much the perfect opposite of purchasing a commodity. You can't get ahead of the curve by doing research, reading reviews and simply being willing to spend money. At the end of the day, you're looking for the "magic" that makes two people enjoy each other's company and live well together. Finding that is, first and foremost, a numbers game. You've got to be willing to meet lots of women . . . and keep an open mind/heart while you're doing so. I've met many women over the last year who would make fantastic friends. But only one woman who seems like a good fit as a romantic partner. Taking into consideration how rare "magic" really is, that shouldn't come as a surprise. Beyond numbers, you must stay focused on what truly matters. Everyone has their "negatives." It's incredibly easy to find reasons to reject a potential partner, and incredibly easy to lose sight of how rare and valuable a "magic" connection is. When the magic strikes, you've got to be ready with an open heart and the willingness to make a relationship work.

I'm very glad we're working together.”

What Linx Members are Saying...

We are thrilled to share some heartwarming feedback from one of our members of the Linx Dating database. Recently matched with a client, her experience underscores the dedication and success of our team. Her words of appreciation not only affirm our mission but also ignite our excitement for the future as we continue to create meaningful connections. Read on to learn more about her journey and the positive impact of being part of the Linx Dating Database.

“Amy is absolutely incredible. You can really tell she is pouring her heart and soul into what she does; this feels like her life's work rather than just a business. It was particularly apparent with the giddy sense of curiosity she seemed to feel right before I went on my first date with the wonderful gentleman she matched me with. I could just tell her excitement and that she knew this would be good and that she couldn't wait to see the outcome. I felt that she was so invested in us. She supported me all the way through, helping me with advice on what to wear when I asked and calming me down when he didn't text right away (lol) - all in just such a friendly genuine way that more than anything gave me so much confidence and made me believe more in myself.

What perhaps impressed me the most with Amy is her unbelievable sense of intuition. I had been in her data base for a few months when her team reached out letting me know they had a potential match for me. Her wonderful chief of staff Dani and later Amy herself spoke through the match and highlighted things about him that they felt were a great fit for me. I was really taken aback - the entire time I was like, how do you know this about me! Amy would then point to the tiniest things I wrote in my profile and say things like, "see because you said X, I figured Y was the case". She is so absolutely brilliant in her understanding of humanity.

The match she set up was without question one of the best first dates of my life. The chemistry was there and instant and I can't wait to go out with the guy again!

I am in awe of who Amy is and what she has built. Having met her and experienced what she did for me, I'm not surprised in the slightest that she's matched the who's who in the tech industry and beyond, and that they call her Silicon Valley's Cupid.

Anyone who is busy and frustrated with today's dating landscape ... you'd be amiss not to give Amy a shot. She's made dating fun again.

Thank you Amy :)”

Linx Dating Awarded as America’s Leading Luxury Matchmaking Service

We are thrilled to be recognized by multiple sources for being a top-performing luxury Matchmaking service during 2022 and into 2023. Linx offers a variety of membership levels with the availability of a passive database for eligible and qualifying singles. 

Linx Dating was ranked in the top 10 choices of matchmakers in the  “2022 Guide to America’s Leading Matchmaking Services” (  View link to read  ) 

Vida Select highlighted Founder and CEO of Linx Dating, Amy Andersen in “The Top 5 Silicon Valley Matchmakers [Ultimate 2022 Guide]” (  View link to read  ) 

Vida Select chose Linx as their top choice of matchmaking in their “2022 Guide To America’s Top High-End Matchmakers” (  View link to read  )

How the Linx Methodology Works... From an Insider

Amy Andersen’s methodology is old-fashioned and direct, and it has been shown to help clients even as they continue to date beyond Linx. To understand exactly how Amy’s methodology impacts clients, Linx Dating reached out to a previous client who has become successful in her approach to dating and is now in a happy exclusive relationship post-Linx.

Demographics:

The previous Client is a 32-year-old active female and established young professional with a 10-year-old daughter. Her partner is a 27-year-old active male and an established young professional.

What stuck out to you most about Amy’s methodology for having success when dating?

I appreciate Amy’s way of assessing fundamental compatibility levels for her clients. She created a system and space that allows her clients to open up and be honest with her (and themselves) about their ideal life partner.

What tip or trick was the most useful to implement in your approach to dating?

1. Make self-care a priority, for it’s the foundation of a healthy relationship.

2. Know your worth and don’t lower your standards when evaluating potential red flags.

3. Don’t be scared to ask hard questions playfully. The right person will be receptive and value you and your time more.

4. Last, never assume; communicate to the point of clarity and mutual understanding.

Were your dates/partner receptive to your new dating approach?

The right man was, and I saved a lot of time and potential heartache in the initial talking stages of dating.

How has your dating life and experience with dating changed since working with Amy?

My mindset has shifted in how I approach my ideal partner. I’ve gone from “do they like me,” to “do I like them and are they a good fit for the woman I am and want to be.”

I am evaluating deal breakers, green and red flags, and learning to communicate upfront while still allowing plenty of space for romance.

Amy’s methodology set a bar that had me off the dating market and exclusive by the 4th date with a man that is communicative, successful, and romantic, ultimately proving that great men do exist in today’s dating landscape and you just have to be willing to stay true to your standards.