By Caroline Novia for Linx Dating
This topic has been coming up a lot lately, and for good reason. It’s more important than you might think.
For many, following someone new on Instagram is an action we don’t think twice about. That one click feels routine. We might like the way they dress, the resources they share, or simply what they’re posting. I value my social media for a few reasons: it brings me closer to the people I love, bridges the gap to friends who live far away, and serves as an informational resource where I’ve learned a lot about a wide range of topics.
Here’s the thing: who you follow *does* matter. In the world of dating, many factors come into play, and in 2025, social media is undeniably one of them. If a woman goes on a date with someone, things go well, and then he follows her, she’s likely going to then look at whom he’s following.
Who people follow often gives insight into their interests and what sparks their attention. Following women or men who post overly suggestive or provocative content can sometimes send mixed signals, especially if you’re looking for a committed relationship or are trying to foster meaningful connections. It’s important to consider how this aligns with your values, your relationship goals, and the type of dynamic you want to build with a partner.
While you might not even be giving a second thought to whom you follow, it’s important to understand how it might make your date or potential partner feel. Take a moment to review and consider whom you follow and what they represent. Call it a social media reset—curate the energy you want to attract in your dating life this year and beyond.