By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating
Let’s be real: single women in San Francisco are over the “game playing” act. After a great first date where there was obvious chemistry, it often takes a turn into confusing territory. Men seem to think they're supposed to act aloof, play hard to get, or even strategically wait a certain amount of time before calling back. And then—crickets.
Newsflash: if you’re into someone, say it. Don’t act like you’re too cool for school or give mixed signals just to “keep her guessing.” It’s childish. And the games? They're a huge turn-off. Women are not here to play cat-and-mouse. They want real, straightforward communication. If you don’t feel a spark, move on. Don’t string anyone along while you try to decide if she’s "worthy" of your time.
Let’s be honest—men are just as afraid of rejection as women, but here’s the thing: if you never take a chance, you’re guaranteed to miss out. So, here’s some advice: jump in, be vulnerable, and take ownership of your feelings. Playing it cool might work in the movies, but in real life? It just leaves everyone frustrated.
So, guys: stop overthinking it. If you like her, act like it. Otherwise, save both your time and hers and move on. Playing games doesn’t make you more attractive—it just makes you look like you’re hiding something.