By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating
Let’s keep this simple: no matter how your date goes—great, awkward, unforgettable, or a complete mess—you walk her to her ride.
That means:
Walk her to her car.
Wait with her until the ride share shows up.
Escort her to a cab or a train station if that’s how she’s getting home.
Don’t just offer—do it.
This isn’t about trying to score points.
It’s not about romance.
It’s about being a man with presence, with standards, with respect.
Why It Matters
In a world where people are more distracted and disconnected than ever, small gestures stand out.
Escorting a woman to her ride says:
I care about your safety.
I don’t vanish the second the check is paid.
I respect you, no matter how I feel about the date.
Even if there’s no second date in the cards, you leave her with the impression that you’re thoughtful, grounded, and aware of the world around you. And trust this—women remember that.
If the Date Went Well? Even Better.
If you actually liked her, that walk to the car or the wait on the sidewalk? That’s where the vibe either fizzles… or builds.
It’s quiet. It’s unforced. It’s real.
Those final moments can be the most telling. Not just for her—but for you too.
And once she’s safely on her way, send a short text:
“Had a great time—text me when you get home safe.”
It costs you nothing. But it speaks volumes.
To the men: Are you doing this? Because you should be.
To the women: Does this register with you?