FEATURED VIP #3

At 51, this 5’11" VIP candidate- fit, warm, and striking in an understated way- carries a kind of magnetic ease. Whether you spot him on a sunset hike at Stanford Dish or exchanging laughter at his favorite sushi spot, you get the sense there’s more to discover with every passing moment.

Born in Eastern Europe and now based in Silicon Valley, he’s lived his life with deliberate grace. This candidate was the kind of kid who took things apart just to understand how they worked. Toy rockets, early computer programs, leadership on the playground- it was all fair game. His love of learning never faded.

He went on to build a very successful career in software engineering and now has the time to focus on his passion projects, the arts, and giving back. While he’s no longer working in a traditional role, he’s always in motion: building AI tools, exploring creative writing, and laying the groundwork for meaningful philanthropy. With an eye toward impact, he hopes to deepen that pursuit with a partner—finding causes that move them both, and contributing in ways that feel personal and lasting.

He’s equal parts intellect and heart. Independent by nature but deeply relational, he thrives on emotional connection and is a thoughtful and witty conversationalist. He has a gift for curiosity- the genuine kind that makes you feel seen- and his earnestness is striking in a world that often trades depth for flash.

He’s also quietly funny. Not performative or loud, but clever and often delightfully self-aware. Conversations with him tend to linger- in the best way.

Daily rituals are simple but intentional: nutritious foods, long hikes that double as walking meditations, light strength training, creative exploration, and quiet reflection. He’s deeply engaged in the arts, a regular at the ballet or symphony, and finds joy in evocative performances and museum exhibits. He’s a lover of poetry, music and moments that stir the soul. His musical tastes range from fun to soulful and expressive and one his all-time favorite films—All About Eve—reveal a taste for beauty, resilience, and sharp wit. Travel, relaxing beach getaways, dark chocolate, and heartfelt conversations are favorite indulgences. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman and The Last Mrs. Parrish by Liv Constantine are two books that this VIP thoroughly enjoyed.

Never married, with no children, he remains open to all of life’s possibilities. His long-term relationship of 13 years shaped him profoundly and positively- he learned how to love well, how to listen, how to grow alongside someone. He’s emotionally intelligent and relationally self-aware. Not perfect, of course. Letting go of a connection, even when it’s time, has been a challenge for him. But through therapy, self-inquiry, and conscious habits, he’s cultivated a grounded and generous way of being.

Intentionally private, with no active social media accounts beyond a few empty placeholders, he’s present where it matters most- in the room, in the relationship, and in the richness of the moment.

And who is the woman who might captivate him? She is alive in her own skin- someone who delights in style, thoughtful details, and the rituals that make her feel her best. She exudes elegance in the details of what makes her feel most feminine. Between the ages of 35 and 55, of any race, and balances intelligence with emotional depth, and beauty with warmth. She’s articulate, self-aware, and deeply affectionate. She is introspective, emotionally available, and has done the inner work. She’s also playful, nurturing, and values the power of a shared glance, a long embrace, or a quiet morning curled up together.

She finds beauty in the arts- ballet, jazz, film, symphony- and likely has her own creative outlet or hobby. She values authenticity, generosity, and the desire to grow. She’s present. She’s sensual. And she understands that true connection is built through intention- through rituals that weave two lives together in joy, grace, and discovery. She’s a woman who’s intellectually alive- someone who questions, explores, and delights in life’s complexities. Like this client, she’s deeply curious at her core, never content with surface-level answers, and finds joy in understanding the world more fully.

Do you believe that love is something not just to fall into, but to cultivate with presence and purpose- and that emotional intimacy isn’t a performance, but a rhythm created slowly, together? Are you a woman who believes that laughter matters as much as longing, and that love can be both rooted and exhilarating? If you align with these philosophies, then this extraordinary man may just be your perfect complement.

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