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LINX CONFIDENTIAL

Newsletter #17

Dear Subscriber First Name,

February is a month that invites us to pause and appreciate love in its many forms. It’s a time that naturally brings connection into focus, whether that shows up through romance, friendship, or a deeper relationship with ourselves. At Linx, this season feels full of presence, openness, and possibility.

I’ve been feeling especially grateful this month. Grateful for the couples who continue to build meaningful lives together, for the new connections beginning to take shape, and for the thoughtful conversations we’re having every day about what it truly means to love.

Recently,  I had the extraordinary opportunity to speak at Harvard Business School about the commerce of connection- human-led matchmaking versus machine-led. Sitting in Professor Debora Spar’s classroom, surrounded by brilliant, curious students, we explored what makes modern dating feel so challenging and why the most meaningful relationships still require something deeply human. We discussed the difference between high-volume, low-signal app culture and the quieter, more intentional approach that defines true matchmaking.

We’re entering the dawn of deepfakes- where images, voices, and even personalities can be manufactured, and what looks real often isn’t. In a world increasingly shaped by algorithms and artificial signals, returning to what is genuinely human matters more than ever: aligned timing, emotional maturity and accountability, shared values, and the willingness to truly show up for another person. Amid the noise and volume of modern dating, the real work is slowing down and paying attention to the person in front of you. At Linx, we’re focused on cracking the opposite code of deepfakes- prioritizing what is real, authentic, and human, and maximizing meaningful, real-world connection.

Affectionately yours,

Amy Andersen

FEBRUARY AT LINX: RETURNING TO WHAT’S REAL

Valentine’s Day often arrives wrapped in expectations. At Linx, we see it as an invitation to return to what’s real- presence, ease, and genuine connection. The most meaningful expressions of love are rarely the loudest. They live in quieter moments: a conversation that lingers, shared laughter, or simply feeling comfortable in someone’s presence.

Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, exploring something new, or spending the day on your own, this moment doesn’t need to follow a script. Love unfolds at its own pace, shaped by honesty, mutual care, and timing that feels aligned...not forced.

It’s also important to acknowledge that for many, Valentine’s Day can be an anxiety-provoking Hallmark holiday. If you know this day tends to heighten loneliness or comparison, consider planning ahead. Securing plans with a friend or family member, or intentionally placing yourself in environments that feel relaxed and natural, can make a meaningful difference. Think spaces that invite ease and connection- rather than anything overly artificial or high-pressure. A shared walk, a class, a gathering centered around a common interest, or simply being somewhere familiar and grounding can help shift the day from something to endure into something supportive.

February also reminds us that love shows up in many forms. Friendships, chosen family, and everyday connections bring steadiness and joy, and they deserve just as much intention as romance. Often, it’s the simplest rituals- shared meals, thoughtful conversation, being fully present- that create the deepest sense of connection.

At Linx, we believe self-connection is not separate from romantic connection- it’s preparation for it. When you choose environments and experiences that calm your nervous system and bring levity rather than anxiety, you build the emotional steadiness that allows real love to grow, naturally and in its own time.

However you move through this month, we hope it brings moments of warmth, ease, and connection that feel grounded, nourishing, and true to you.

FEBRUARY FRIENDSHIP AND CONNECTION

February is a perfect time to celebrate friendship, laughter, and the everyday connections that bring so much joy and balance to our lives. A few fun Bay Area-inspired ways to gather with the people you love:

• Matcha walks and long catch-ups in the sunshine
• Homemade heart-shaped pizzas before a night out
• A candlelight concert experience with live music and warm ambiance
• Dinner with friends in the city
• A relaxed tasting day in Sonoma
• A fitness or wellness class followed by coffee
• A stop at a favorite chocolate shop or dessert spot

The Cupid of Silicon Valley visiting Harvard Business School January 2026

REFER A FRIEND

Know someone single and looking for love?

Refer them to our matchmaking database and help them find their perfect match!

How to Refer

  1. Contact Rachel: Email their name and email address to rachel@linxdating.com

  2. Share the Love: Send them the links below.
    Men’s application form

    Women’s application form

SEE YOU SOON!

Thanks for reading our Dating Confidential Newsletter! Thank you for being a valued part of our community!

If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to reach out to us at rachel@linxdating.com. Of course, we’d be super happy if you would support and follow us on our social accounts, which are linked below!

 
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